On Conflation and the Universal Workplace Experience Myth
There aren't enough people willing to comprehend and admit that just because they feel safe and supported at work doesn't mean everyone feels safe and supported at work. This goes double for the place you currently work.
Just because you're having a good time at work doesn't mean everyone you work with is having a blast.
There is no such thing as a common or universal workplace experience. And if you think there is?
You're conflating your experience as the only experience that matters.
You also might need to evaluate your relationships with white supremacy and “professionalism” and the perks your lack of melanin or willingness to engage in homogenization or assimilation to erase your skin tone provides.